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Maintaining A Strong Relationship

Every relationship is unique, complex and multi-dimensional, and every person has his own way of understanding and feeling if a relationship is or is not right for him. Most of us want to fall in love, be in love and stay in love forever. We want just to put ourselves to the hands of the loved one in the hope that the relationship will provide all our happiness. We even think that our partner is supposed to know exactly what, when and how to provide this happiness. But good relationships do not happen out of nowhere, automatically, and are based on caring and giving rather then by a need. We all must be prepared to give to the other and not just concentrate on what it is that we need and what is important only for us.

The beauty and essence of a good relationship is when you feel completely comfortable with the other part. A relationship can be a great way to have fun and create a special bond, as well as learn a lot about yourself and the one you care for. Good relationship makes you laugh, it makes you feel safe and supported, and what is most important - very happy.

Maintaining a good and strong relationship requires a lot of effort, sincerity and dedication. It also requires understanding and a capacity to forgive. It is important to remember, that even when a relationship is going well and smooth, it should never be taken for granted and still, a lot of effort is required to be put into in order to keep it. This way, there is a better chance for any kind of relationship to become strong and healthy.

The fundamental thing in maintaining a good relationship is the ability of partners to listen. When we are able to listen to another person, we are given a chance to understand deeper his thoughts, and the other person, in its turn feels that he is worthy of being listened to. Trust increases the value of any relationship. Learning to trust someone and being honest with them may take some time. The more time is being spent together and more experiences are being shared together, the level of trust will eventually increase. It takes a long time to build a normal relationship, but it can be destroyed in a second if betrayal takes place. Trust sanctifies a relationship and the break of it often leads to a break-up.

Communication is the key to maintaining a healthy and strong relationship. It is important from the very beginning to talk to each other, to nurture each other and give each other support. It is a good idea to keep the lines of communication open. This means talking on a regular basis about everyday happenings in life, share opinions, thoughts and feelings. When this happens, people start understanding each other much better and get to know of each other's likes and dislikes.

Having a healthy relationship does not mean that partners never argue or disagree about anything. We all have our ups and downs, and conflicts occur at some point in all relationships. It is impossible to imagine, that two unique individuals who became closer and started sharing time with each other, and sometimes living under the same roof, would never disagree on some subject, whether it is about tastes in food, movies, clothing, or just about visiting or not visiting friends in the weekend. Sometimes it can be difficult to manage these arguments. Therefore, it is important that people learn how to deal with differences and conflicts, no matter large or small. It is important to stay calm and honest about how you feel and what you need. The appropriate thing would be also to discuss in a friendly manner anything that bothers both sides, and just simply agree to disagree. This is a right thing to do as the goal of a healthy relationship is not to copy each other, but that both partners can feel good about who they are. The more people talk about their problems, the easier it will become to solve them. It is essential to realize that learning about how to work things out together is a key to a successful relationship. When you respect someone else's tastes, opinions and choices, you can always excpect that they will respect yours in return.

It is also very important not to try to change your partner. To be in a relationship where one just lives with a hope that another one will change is unhealthy for both. You will just get disappointed waiting for him/her to change, while the other one will get upset not being accepted for who he/she is.

Spending time together is important for getting to know each other better and it can also be lots of fun. Giving each other space and freedom from time to time is another significant moment. It is not good to interfere in what they do, or try to restrict them to certain limits. Also, people hate to be doubted. As soon as it happens, any relationship can go down in an instant. Just think that doubting another half is equal to doubting yourself. Freedom is the most valuable aspect in any relationship, and if you give it to your partner, they will respect and love you even more.

The value of a really good relationship is priceless, and when it comes to you, embrace it, nurture it, savor it and try to maintain by all possible means. And if you try to follow the suggestions given above, then no force can split you and your partner ever, and you will be the best example for many other couples on how to lead a beautiful life.

Zivilia ~ Aishiteru ( Super HD Video Clip )

Lirik Lagu Zivilia – Aishiteru (Aku Cinta Kamu)

Menunggu sesuatu yang sangat menyebalkan bagiku
saat ku harus bersabar dan trus bersabar
menantikan kehadiran dirimu
entah sampai kapan aku harus menunggu
sesuatu yang sangat sulit tuk kujalani
hidup dalam kesendirian sepi tanpamu
kadang kuberpikir cari penggantimu
saat kau jauh disana

walau raga kita terpisah jauh
namun hati kita selalu dekat
bila kau rindu pejamkan matamu
dan rasakan a a a aku
kekuatan cinta kita takkan pernah rapuh
terhapus ruang dan waktu
percayakan kesetiaan ini
akan tulus a a ai aishiteru

Gelisah sesaat saja tiada kabarmu kucuriga
entah penantianku takkan sia-sia
dan berikan satu jawaban pasti
entah sampai kapan aku harus bertahan
saat kau jauh disana rasa cemburu
merasuk kedalam pikiranku melayang
tak tentu arah tentang dirimu
apakah sama yang kau rasakan

hapus sendiri pikiran melayang terbang
perasaan resah gelisah
jalani kenyataan hidup tanpa gairah
o…uo..
banyak segala misi dan ambisimu
akhiri semuanya cukup sampai disini
dan buktikan pengorbanan cintamu untukku
kumohon kau kembali

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my dear blog, i dont know lh either he tipu me @ not. but, ku tkut bla ada org mnipu kta. smua org takut kn?? so, bgtu jgak dgn aku.. t'utamanya skali bla org yg kta syg n cinta mnipu kta. but, if diorang jujur ngan kta, it not a big problm. im stil can accept it.. 

my dear blog, i hope that org yg sya syg n cinta x mnipu sya. so that, i can still continue wth our rltionship.. tpi i'm stil curious.. nda prlu lh ku mdah ba dtu nma problm ku.. ssah ku ka mdah.. ku tkut utai 2 skadar bulak n rekaan semata2 utk mhancurkn hubngn kni duai.. tpi, nti amai, what should i do?? adakh aku akn continue ngau iya @ not.. ku pun nda nmu.. huhu... but, im stil love n miss him damn so mc!!!! bla lh ku ulih btemu ngau iya bru... ku pun ngai bjnji gk ngau iya. ku tkut ku akn merana nti jnji nda dtepati. nyak pling ku tkut... btw, thanx 4 u k blog coz nn jk lh snggup ninga luahan perasaan ku... ku pun ngai blaya ngau iya psal utai 2.. just keep it... 

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Black Eyed Peas – The Time (Dirty Bit)

I had the time of my life and I never felt this way before
and I swear this is true and I owe it all to you
Oh I had the time of my life and I never felt this way before
and I swear this is true and I owe it all to you
…dirty bit
…dirty bit

I-I came up in here to rock
light a fire make it hot
I don’t wanna take no pictures
I just wanna take some shots so
come on lets go lets lose control
lets do it all night till we can’t do it no more
We gon rock it to the sound turn it up and watch it (bounce)
we gon rock it to the top until the roof gon (pouring) down
and yea it’s hot in here the temperature
it’s got these ladies gettin freakier
I got freaky freaky baby I was chillin with my ladies
I didn’t come to get (perky) I come here to get crazy
I was born to get wild that’s my style if you didn’t know that,
well baby now you know now,

Cuz I’m havin a good time with you I’m tellin you
I had the time of my life and I never felt this way before
and I swear this is true and I owe it all to you
oh I had the time of my life and I never felt this way before
and I swear this is true and I owe it all to you
…dirty bit
…dirty bit

A-All these girls they like my swagger they callin me Mick Jagger
I be rollin like the stones (yet) sadder jet lagger
we ain’t messin with no maggots
messin with the baddest chicks in the club
honey what’s up mirror mirror on the wall
its the baddest of em all yes gotta be the apple
I’m the mac daddy yall haters better step back ladies
don’t (hold your up) I’m the party application rock it just like that
Cuz I’m havin a good time with you I’m tellin you
I had the time of my life and I never felt this before
and I swear this is true and I owe it all to you
oh I had the time of my life and I never felt this way before
and I swear this is true and I owe it all to you
I had the time of my life and I never felt this way before
and I swear this is true and I owe it all to you
oh I had the time of my life and I never felt this way before
and I swear this is true and I owe it all to you
…dirty bit